salam and hye all...
it'd been several weeks since my last post....im currently on my 1 month holiday and there's no reason for me not to write excessively....but, please bear in mind, im very busy preparing....hmm...like what i've told you before...do recall...hehe...
first of all, since i just finished my final exam, im gonna talk lil bit about it....yup i know by right, i shouldn't mention it here and like people say let bygones be bygones. but give me room to reflect upon it for maybe this is my last piece of writing regarding the exam as this final exam actually indicates the end of my study for degree. 6 years only for a degree, such a loo00o0ng time guys...however, im very very very grateful that i've made it...Alhamdulillah....semoga ilmu yang sedikit ini dapat digunakan dan diamalkan dalam mendidik anak bangsa...kawan saya pernah berpesan, walaupun kita sibuk mengejar degree, master, PHD dan sebagainya, jangan lupa kita menuntut ilmu akhirat seperti ilmu tajwid, fiqh, dll....and i know im lacking in those...insyaAllah, i'll improve myself as the time goes...
hmm...about the exam, frankly speaking, i found that this final exam was the worst exam i've ever had. i realized that since it was my last, i should perform well but i know Allah knows what the best for HIS servant. i've put a lot of effort into the exam but i couldnt answer the papers well....
whatever it is, more important to me is barakah or keberkatan sebelum, semasa dan selepas exam. okay, enough for that..
i started my holiday by reading these books....it is advisable to read both books especially for those who are getting married just soon. me?excluded...:)
but i really love to read books in which the content revolves around relationship...yup i do...everyone involves in relationship right? it might be among family members, friends, boyfriends, girlfriends etc...
lets talk about the first book, MEN are from MARS, WOMEN are from VENUS...it is highly recommended as it discusses on how to deal with the opposite sex since men and women have their own unique characteristics that makes them differ from each other. Could men and women complement each other well? how? this book somehow helpful...
the writer, John Gray pictured man and woman as two different people who come from different planets namely MARS and VENUS...there comes the title, MEN are from MARS, WOMEN from VENUS...how do they compatible to each other? through marriage, they will be living together not only on the same planet which is the EARTH but, under the same roof!!!
the part that i remember well is that it is stated that men will go to their 'cave' when they have their hard time. they want to be alone in order to calm themselves down and think of the solution. so, women dont try to intrude into the 'cave' or else, you will get hurt...thus, you need to leave them alone and just wait for their return after spending time in their 'cave'.
how bout the second book? by looking at the title, you can guess what's inside right? it's about marriage life, how to maintain it....penulis melihat perkahwinan sebagai medan untuk memberi, dan dengan itu, kita akan memikirkan soal PERANAN dan bukannya HAK yang tak berkesudahan.
what more, it's like a cliche when most people said that they wished to get married because they wanted to prevent themselves from committing zina or menghalalkan apa yang haram but based on the writer, we shoudnt think that way for it's actually more than that.....
"tidakkah mereka sedar cabaran tanggungjawab selepas berkahwin adalah lebih besar dan sulit daripada sekadar cabaran menolak zina?"
do read those books for they are complement to each other. even the writer of 'Aku terima Nikahnya' said so. He suggested to read 'MEN are from MARS, WOMEN are from VENUS" as there are topics discussed by him which related to the book....enjoy reading..:)
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