relationship = 2 parties = commitments = responsibilities

Relationship, either it's a friendship, couple or else, involves two parties and sometimes more than two people...

it requires lifelong commitments therefore each and every individual involves in it should be responsible for maintaining a good relationship...

~antara 2 cinta~

salam readers...

Disaat jari jemariku menari-nari di papan kekunciku, masih terngiang-ngiang dan segar dalam ingatan kata-kata Ustaz Akhil Hayy dalam ceramah beliau malam td. a big thank to UIA for organzing such activity sempena zikrulmaut week. "manusia menzahirkan cinta, cinta melahirkan manusia"....kata-kata ustaz yg membuatkan aku terfikir sejenak..manusia boleh menzahirkan perasaan cinta, kasih sayang kepada orang yang halal baginya supaya perasaan cinta dan kasih sayang yg dizahirkan di antara mereka dapat melahirkan insan-insan, umat nabi Muhammad s.a.w. Lebih memeranjatkan saya apabila beliau mengeluarkan statistik terbaru daripada JAKIM yg mana seramai 265 000 anak luar nikah di negara kita or in other harsh word, anak zina. adakah antara mereka anak Ah Leong or anak Muthu?...tidak sama sekali....semuanya orang melayu..memang betulla melayu mudah lupa...lupa dengan Allah..lupa dengan azab Allah..

romantiknya Allah..
selain Ustz Akhil Hayy, Fatimah Syarha, novelis terkenal, merupakan panel kedua malam td. beliau menceritakan tentang romantiknya Allah dengan Rasulullah dapat dilihat dalam Surah Ad-Dhuha...

1. Demi waktu Dhuha;
2 Dan malam apabila ia sunyi-sepi;
3 (Bahawa) Tuhanmu (wahai Muhammad) tidak meninggalkanmu dan Dia tidak benci (kepadamu, sebagaimana yang dituduh oleh kaum musyrik).
4 Dan sesungguhnya kesudahan keaadaanmu adalah lebih baik bagimu daripada permulaannya.
5 Dan sesungguhnya Tuhanmu akan memberikanmu (kejayaan dan kebahagiaan di dunia dan di akhirat) sehingga engkau reda (berpuas hati).
6 Bukankah Dia mendapati engkau yatim piatu, lalu Dia memberikan perlindungan?
7 Dan didapatiNya engkau mencari-cari (jalan yang benar), lalu Dia memberikan hidayat petunjuk (dengan wahyu Al-Quran)?
8 Dan didapatiNya engkau miskin, lalu Dia memberikan kekayaan?
9 Oleh itu, adapun anak yatim maka janganlah engkau berlaku kasar terhadapnya,
10 Adapun orang yang meminta (bantuan pimpinan) maka janganlah engkau tengking herdik;
11 Adapun nikmat Tuhanmu, maka hendaklah engkau sebut-sebutkan (dan zahirkan) sebagai bersyukur kepadaNya.

what's more, kita lihat contoh romantiknya Rasulullah bersama isterinya yang mana mereka berkongsi dan suap-menyuap seketul daging sehingga habis daging itu, sehingga bertaut bibir mereka...alangkah romantiknya baginda...

alangkah indahnya dapat pengalaman bercinta selepas kahwin seperti yang dilalui oleh beliau...sempat lagi melafazkan kata rindu buat suami tersayang yang selalu oncall sewaktu memeberikan ceramah malam td...orang yg halal dirindui.....

yang halal itu luas...sabarlah menanti saat kita diijab kabulkan kelak...

~gf-bf relationship VS friendship~

salam and hye readers...

dont you realize?
in a friendship, if two people or more hold different views,thoughts and beliefs, this may lead them to fall apart...
in a girlfriend-boyfriend relationship or couple, if the two love birds have different preferance, hold on distinctive beliefs and so forth, people might say that they complement each other, instead of choosing to fall apart....one might have this in mind: " no worry, my differences complete my other half...we complement each other well, we are meant to be together, so, i should bear his and vice verse".....it's good to apply this to our friendship because i rarely heard a friend say to her bestfriend :" i love to do this, i plan to do that but you disagree with what i've been planning all this while, oh nver mind, our differences complete us" rather "i love to do this, i plan to do that but you disagree with all my plans all this while, so just go with yours if you think that works out...i'll be doing mine, i cant tolerate with u anymore,i'll find others who have the same notion as mine.you never suit my book!!" they ended up with a broken relationship...

so do apply this girlfriend-boyfriend relationship to our FRIENDship...:)

~always be my babe~

...love this song....

~a thin mambrane that separates the water~

salam and hye readers .....

hurm....sory for making my blog private for 1 day...i planned to do so for weekss actually due to only a single, particular reason but i failed because of my overcraving for pouring and sharing knowledge or info with u all...

yesterday, we had CALL class with Mr. Sharizal...he mentioned about a marine scientist who found a mambrane that separating the water under the sea. Some of my friends showed their blurred look to me. i told them briefly about this mambrane thingy as i've read one of my lil sis' friend's blog regarding this issue.  let us have further reading in order to have better understanding bout it....

he has let free the two bodies of flowing water, meeting together (19) between them is a barrier which they do not transgress (20) then, which of the favors of your Lord will ye deny? (21) out of them come corals and the pearls (22) (Ar-Rahman 19-22)
well, i did found this one discovery a few months back. it's about a marine scientist who made footages under the sea. an incident happened. whilst on the making of a clip, he found a magnificent view. in the middle of the deep,blue ocean, right at the bed of the sea, he saw something like a small oasis in the middle of a dessert. a flowing stream of water with plants IN the sea.ON the seabed! and he saw something resembling a geyser. and in between the geyser and the sea water, he could see something like a thin membrane parting the two types of water.

what happened next?he was flabbergasted. scared not to mention. until the day he found the view, he have never seen anything like that. not even during his years of studies in becoming a marine scientist. when he was on the ground back again, his curiosity grows in every second. just like a cat. but this time, he was not killed. (you know, the proverb curiosity kills a cat).

so, due to the growing curiosity, he went for an intense research. he moved from universities to universities finding for answer. he would like to see evidence that this thing did exist. because he was afraid the whole view was just something created out of the tension he feels underwater. but, to no avail. noone had the answer. until he found a muslim professor.

the muslim professor showed him the extract of surah ar-rahman 19-22. he was shocked. he couldnt believe it, all awhile, he has been searching hard an answer for a question which Allah has already answered thousand years ago. his hijab was opened. and he accepted the faith of Islam.

here's something you might inquire. you see, i have been hearing talks saying that the 55:19-22 were referring to the parting of sea water and river. yes, sanctuaries. but there's a hint showing that 55:19-22 didn't refer to sanctuaries. take 55:22 as an evidence. up until today, u can never find lulu'an wal marjan in any sanctuaries in the world.

so, the view the marine scientist found fit the picture told by Allah in ar-Rahman. a barrier = the thin membrane. separate = two different types of water in the same place but they dont mix. corals and the pearls = bed of sea where humans always find different kind of minerals there.
Allahuakhbar eyh? yerp, He is the Almighty.


~ill-defined feeling~

i barely see his tears
i rarely see him in grief
i hardly see his anger flash across his face

the only thing i know is that
i'm happy when i see him happy
i'm happy when i'm with him

but my calculation is totally wrong
happy faces potrayed to me are actually ambiguous
as they can be defined in various ways and for different reasons

different people may express their feelings differently
some choose sharing them verbally
for a few, through writing
but for me, i opt for both....

today reveals everything by God's will....thanx to Allah...

~Seoul Garden~

salam readers!!!
yesterday, i went for an outing but surprisingly, i didnt shop and go for movie which i used to do before...people said, shop!!shop!!shop!! until you drop but in my case, i eat, eat, and eat until i die only then i couldnt eat anymore...nope...im not dead yet but i could barely walk as i was loaded with food...i had to force myself eating as much as possible as i'd paid for it....i even loosed my belt so that i could eat more but i failed...now i realized and admitted another fact of myself that my tummy is sooo comeyl...:)
and i know for a fact that he did the cooking more if compared to me but it's still fair for he ate more than i did.

we need to practise, practise and practise so that our ABC looks more tempting next time

fruitss and veggiesss won out my heart the most